Do you have a personality quirk or disorder?

Do you have a personality quirk or disorder?Let me start by saying that i have dealt with a lot of guys who do, and i think those guys are all long gone from here, because i can't deal with that shit. And so if you're reading this, there's a really good chance that you don't have a personality quirk or disorder. Either that or I'm just lucky enough not to have seen much of it. Again, if i did, you wouldn't still be subscribed to me.But let's discuss some "habits" that some people have when communicating with others that comes across as deeply unlikable. There's def. a difference between a quirk vs. a disorder, but they often have the same result. The result being that you could be making people hate you. The difference being that a quirk can be easily worked out, but a disorder is a battle. Even just admitting the issue is very hard for people who have the issue, and once they do, they have a lot of work to overcome it. If you just have a quirk, you might have worked it all out simply by reading on!!REMEMBER: You can't rely only on "well nobody has ever told me i'm like thatbefore." Unfortunately, people care so little, they won't even tell you, they'll just stop talking to you because that's the easiest thing they can do. So i'lll try to give you some clues as to whether or not you are doing this, but ultimately the best way to know something is wrong is if you find a lot of people just not putting in any effort to talk to you anymore.1) Do you argue with people for sport? There are people who genuinely find it fun/funny to just disagree with whatever anyone says. To tell people theyr'e wrong. I don't mind being told if something i'm saying is wrong, but the type of person i'm talking about will find go out of their way to point out how wrong you are, even if you're not wrong at all!How would you know if this is you? Do people constantly tell you, "Ok you win." If so, they might be saying that out of pity. Has anone ever told you, "why can't you just admit that you were wrong when you tried to tell me i was wrong" Have you found yourself saying, "I'm just playing around; playing devil's advocate is all."2) Do you feel the need to qualify your opinions and your ideas, by dropping your accomplishments, titles, and/or degrees into every discussion you have? That is textbook insecurity if you're doing it. You shouldn't have to qualify the things you say much at all, because the things you say should stand on their own merit. If you believe in what you say that is. IF you are qualifying yourself all the time, you're really saying, "What i'm saying might sound kind of shaky and you might not agree with it, but you have to agree with me because i have a resume!!"3) Do you talk about yourself too often and with too much love for yourself?Do you talk about yourself a lot with people? Are you answering their questions or you just go on a roll? If you're truly interesting, people will ask you questions and you'll only talk about yourself when asked to. But if you're not interesting, you might find the need to tell people about yourself because they don't care enough to ask. Again, there is no need to go on and on about yourself unless you're answering questions or in the flow of a back and forth discussion.How do you know if you're doing this: When you tell people about yourself, do they look away? Do they change the subject immediately?4) Are you incapable of picking up obvious social cue from someone? Do you remember conversations where you got a vibe that someone was getting tired of hearing you talk about something? It's actually good if you did. Because everyone will bore people at some point, or they'll talk about something the other person doesn't feel like talking about. That's normal. The thing is, people with a quirk/disorder you won't pick up on it. You won't pay any attention to the cues most people would. You have to read the room and be willing to care about the obvious signs. Also don't confuse this for "hey do you want me to talk about something different?" That would be lame, lol. If you get a bad vibe, you just change the subject or just cool it.5) Do you lie a lot and in a way that people kind of know you're lying or at least exaggerating all the time? I'm not here to tell you to be honest 100% of the time, that's a lifestyle choice. But there are like 10% of people out there who i would call obvious liars. They just have this vibe that they're coated with, where you just know half the shit they say is untrue. People can't stand this.How would you know if this is you? Has anyone ever told you that you lie a lot? lol, That's a pretty good start. Do you find yourself lying sometimes? Do you do it compulsively? Again, I'm not saying if someone asks you how often you watch porn that you're going to tell them the truth. I'm talking more about the kind of person who tells lies that don't even really benefit them.6) Are you ok to admit you don't know something? For example: If someone asks me, "Hey do you know if Taiwan has good subway system?" I would just say "No I have no idea." There are some people who might say, "Oh ya they have one of the most efficient systems in the world actually," without actually knowing anything about it. Basically they are just guessing because they dont' want to say they don't know. But if you do that enough, people will know and they'll think you're BS. So I realize this one is complicated. It's not immoral to guess about things or even to take educated guesses on things. The distinction is in whether or not you put the disclaimer on it or not. Do you say, "I'm not sure, but based on what i know of the region and the country I would guess that they have an efficient system there, better that ours." Which would be great! But if you just take an educated guess without qualifying it as a guess, you are just pretending to know shit that you don't.I know this isn't the most comfortable topic to discuss, but it only does us well to do a little checkup on yourself this way from time to time.